Female Masturbation

Female masturbation is sexual stimulation that a woman performs on her own body for pleasure, arousal, exploration or orgasm. It most often involves touching or vibrating the clitoris and surrounding vulva, but it can also include vaginal penetration, stimulation of other parts of the body, sexual fantasy or combinations of several techniques.

There is no single normal way to masturbate. Women's preferred location, pressure, movement and stimulation pattern vary substantially, and the same woman may use different methods depending on her level of arousal, mood or desired type of orgasm.^[1]

How women masturbate

Female masturbation can range from very localized clitoral touching to stimulation involving several parts of the genitals and body at the same time.

Clitoral stimulation

The clitoris is the central structure for sexual pleasure for many women. Masturbation may involve touching the clitoral glans directly, moving the clit hood over it, rubbing the surrounding tissue or applying pressure through the labia.

Some women prefer very direct stimulation while others find the exposed glans too sensitive and prefer touching beside it or through the hood. A U.S. probability survey found substantial diversity in preferred genital-touch location, pressure, movement and pattern.^[1]

Movement may include circular, side-to-side, up-and-down or more irregular motions. There is no evidence that one universal movement pattern is optimal for women as a group.

A woman may also change technique as arousal increases. A pressure or movement that feels pleasant early in masturbation may become too weak, too strong or simply different later.

Vaginal stimulation and penetration

Masturbation does not require vaginal penetration, but some women insert fingers or a dildo or other sex toy into the vagina.

A convenience sample of 698 adult women in New Zealand found clitoral stimulation was reported by 76%, vaginal stimulation or penetration by 35.4%, and mechanical aids such as vibrators or dildos by 33%.^[2] Because this was a convenience sample, these percentages should not be treated as exact prevalence estimates for all women.

Vaginal stimulation can be shallow or deeper, and some women combine it with simultaneous external clitoral stimulation.

Research on women's pleasure during vaginal penetration shows that many women use techniques involving shallow stimulation near the vaginal entrance, changes in pelvic angle, continuous pressure and simultaneous clitoral stimulation.^[3]

Vibrators and other toys

A vibrator can stimulate the clitoris without requiring the rapid repetitive finger movements used in manual masturbation.

Vibrator use is common. A nationally representative U.S. study of 2,056 women aged 18–60 found that 52.5% had used a vibrator at some point in their lives.^[4]

Vibrators may be applied directly to the clitoral glans, through the hood, against the labia or around the broader clitoral area. Internal vibrators and dildos can instead or additionally stimulate the vagina.

A toy does not necessarily replace fingers. Some women combine manual touch with vibration or penetration, or switch between them as arousal develops.

What happens to the body during masturbation?

Female masturbation can produce the same basic genital arousal responses as sexual stimulation with a partner.

Blood flow increases in the clitoris and other genital erectile tissues. The clitoris during arousal becomes engorged, while the inner labia and vestibular tissues can become fuller.^[5]

The vagina may also produce increasing sexual lubrication. This can create a visibly wet pussy and coat fingers or sex toys with vaginal lubrication or grool.

Lubrication is not a precise measure of how sexually excited a woman feels. Physiological genital arousal and conscious subjective arousal are related but do not always correspond closely.^[6]

Other pussy fluids may already be present before masturbation begins, including ordinary vaginal discharge and cervical mucus.

How often do women masturbate?

There is no normal required frequency.

A U.S. nationally representative survey conducted in 2021 included 1,958 women aged 18–92. About 36.5% reported solo masturbation during the previous month, while roughly one quarter reported that they had never masturbated.^[7]

Only 8.8% of women in that survey reported masturbating at least once per week during the previous year.^[7] These figures describe that particular U.S. population during the COVID-19 period and should not automatically be generalized to every country or age group.

Frequency can also change within the same person's life. Sexual desire, privacy, relationships, stress, health, medications and simply personal interest can all affect whether someone masturbates frequently, occasionally or not at all.

Not masturbating is therefore not in itself evidence of sexual dysfunction, just as frequent masturbation is not by itself evidence of a problem.

Why do women masturbate?

Pleasure is one of the most obvious reasons, but women report several motivations.

Among women who had masturbated during the previous year in the U.S. national survey, 63.6% selected pleasure as a reason, 49.0% masturbated when feeling horny, 36.2% for stress relief, 25.8% to relax and 25.7% to help themselves fall asleep.^[7]

Another 12.5% selected exploring their own sexuality as a reason.^[7]

Masturbation can therefore serve different purposes on different occasions. The same woman might masturbate once because she is strongly aroused, another time because she wants to relax, and another time because she wants to explore how a particular type of touch feels.

Masturbation can also teach a person which kinds of pressure, location and movement produce pleasure. That information can later be useful when communicating preferences during partnered sex.

Masturbation and orgasm

Masturbation can lead to female orgasm, but orgasm does not have to be the purpose or endpoint of every masturbation session.

A large opt-in international survey of 2,215 women found that masturbation frequency, motives and activities were associated with differences in orgasmic pleasure, orgasm latency and orgasm difficulty.^[8]

Near orgasm, some women experience visible or palpable pussy contractions. Others may experience orgasm with relatively little external movement.

Immediately afterward, the clitoris can become extremely sensitive for some women. Continued stimulation that felt pleasurable immediately before orgasm may then feel too intense, leading the woman to stop, reduce pressure or move stimulation away from the glans.

Multiple orgasms are possible for some women, but they are not a universal ability or requirement.

Masturbation and partnered sex

Female masturbation is not simply a substitute used only when partnered sex is unavailable.

In the 2021 U.S. national survey, women who reported more frequent partnered sex also tended to report more masturbation.^[7] This supports the idea that the two behaviors can complement each other rather than always competing.

Another study of 2,215 women found only moderate similarity between the techniques women used during masturbation and those available during partnered sex. Greater alignment between the two was associated with better orgasmic outcomes during partnered sex.^[9]

This can have a simple practical explanation: a woman may know a very specific stimulation pattern that works during masturbation but that is not automatically reproduced by a partner.

Masturbation can therefore provide information about preferences, but partners should not assume that a technique demonstrated once is the only technique the person enjoys.

What may surprise a partner?

Female masturbation is often much more focused on the external clitoris than pornographic imagery centered on vaginal penetration might suggest.

In the New Zealand sample, clitoral stimulation was more than twice as commonly reported as vaginal stimulation or penetration.^[2] The sample is not representative of all women, but the result is consistent with broader research showing the importance of clitoral stimulation for female sexual pleasure.^[1]

A second potentially unexpected feature is how precise preferred touch can be. Small changes in position, pressure, speed or whether stimulation is directly on the glans or beside it can substantially alter sensation.

A woman may also use relatively little visible movement. Pressure against a particular spot, holding a vibrator in place, tightening pelvic muscles or rubbing through clothing can be sexually effective without the large repetitive movements often emphasized in pornography.

Visible wetness is similarly variable. Some women produce abundant lubrication during masturbation, while others can be highly aroused with much less visible fluid.

Masturbation can also look different immediately before orgasm. Movements may speed up, slow down, become more consistent or stop temporarily; there is no single observable pattern that identifies imminent orgasm in every woman.

Comfort and physical effects

Ordinary masturbation is generally a low-risk sexual activity because it does not require exposure to another person's sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy.

Friction can nevertheless produce temporary irritation, especially during prolonged or vigorous stimulation. Additional sexual lubricant can reduce friction when natural lubrication is insufficient.^[10]

Temporary genital numbness can occur with strong vibrator use. In the U.S. vibrator survey, 16.5% of ever-users reported having experienced numbness at least once, but only 0.5% reported numbness lasting a day or longer; 71.5% reported none of the listed vibrator-related genital symptoms.^[4]

Pain is not necessary for effective masturbation. Persistent pain, bleeding, injury or prolonged loss of sensation is a reason to stop the activity and, if it does not resolve, seek medical assessment.

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References

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↑ Hensel DJ, von Hippel CD, Lapage CC, Perkins RH. Women's techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Results from a nationally representative study of adult women in the United States. PLOS ONE, 2021. PubMed
↑ ^4,1 ^4,2 Herbenick D, Reece M, Sanders S, Dodge B, Ghassemi A, Fortenberry JD. Prevalence and characteristics of vibrator use by women in the United States: results from a nationally representative study. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2009. PubMed
↑ Suh DD, Yang CC, Cao Y, Heiman JR, Garland PA, Maravilla KR. MRI of female genital and pelvic organs during sexual arousal. Journal of Psychosomatic Obstetrics & Gynecology, 2004. PubMed
↑ Chivers ML, Seto MC, Lalumière ML, Laan E, Grimbos T. Agreement of self-reported and genital measures of sexual arousal in men and women: a meta-analysis. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2010. PubMed
↑ ^7,1 ^7,2 ^7,3 ^7,4 ^7,5 Herbenick D, Fu TC, Wasata R, Coleman E. Masturbation Prevalence, Frequency, Reasons, and Associations with Partnered Sex in the Midst of the COVID-19 Pandemic: Findings from a U.S. Nationally Representative Survey. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2023. PubMed Central
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↑ Rowland DL, Hevesi K, Conway GR, et al. Relationship Between Masturbation and Partnered Sex in Women: Does the Former Facilitate, Inhibit, or Not Affect the Latter? Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2020. PubMed
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